對於想擺脫華人/中國身份認同的人，祕訣全在《宋飛正傳》的這一段裏：
Elaine: She’s Chinese so you suggest Chinese food?
Jerry: She suggested it!
Elaine: I thought Chinese don’t eat Chinese.
Jerry: She’s very assimilated.
我觉得你天生长得不一样，你就不可能让人觉得你 assimilated 了，就像这段话里的 Donna Chang 其实是个白人一样。